It is, but I think understanding how people think is a big part of communication...it may be a bit of a peculiar way, but if you want to form interpersonal relationships with people, getting to know the way they think is always important.

[She's a bit surprised, though, when he offers her the hairpin...]

F-for me? Oh, well, thank you very much..! If you don't have much use for it...personally, I don't think it would look bad on you, but I suppose I could try it on!

[And that she does..!]